Our autonomic nervous system and stress
Human beings have an autonomic nervous system (ANS), which controls a great deal of how our body works. The word “autonomic” means that the system functions without our conscious control. We don’t have to tell our lungs to breathe, our heart to beat, or our stomachs to start the digestive process. Our systems just do what they are supposed to do.
The autonomic nervous system has two streams operating in tandem. They are the sympathetic and the parasympathetic, and they fulfil different functions. For me, understanding how they operate and how to support them has helped me manage the stress created by complexity. This helps me increase my wellbeing.
The ANS is vast and complex, so this article is necessarily a summary – please check the References section for more information.
The sympathetic nervous system
The sympathetic nervous system is responsible for creating homeostasis (the balance of our body’s systems). It also triggers our “fight or flight” response (to which many people now add “freeze” and “fawn”) in response to stress. That stress can be acute or chronic. The stress prompts a cascade of hormones that affect our breathing, heart rate, muscles etc.
The parasympathetic nervous system
This stream of our autonomic nervous system is sometimes called the “rest and digest” or “feed and breed” system. It is the system that operates when our body is in a restful state, experiencing manageable levels of stress. When we experience unmanageable levels of stress, the sympathetic nervous system is triggered, and our body shuts down or limits the activities of the parasympathetic nervous system, affecting our digestion, heart rate and breathing, fertility, creativity and ability to make and maintain social connections.
We can learn how to activate aspects of the parasympathetic nervous system. Some techniques include:
- deep abdominal breathing for a few minutes, several times a day (it’s not necessary or desirable to try to breathe this way 24/7)
- visualising a calm and peaceful scene (whether a real place or one of your imagination)
- focusing on a word with a positive meaning to you (e.g. rest, peace, safe)
- meditative practices (such as prayer, yoga, or meditation)
- establishing calming rituals (e.g. making and enjoying a cup of tea)
- moving your body (e.g. walking, dancing, swimming, tai chi)
- talking to a therapist or supportive friend/family member
- developing your social support network (including family, friends, co-workers, and social contacts through churches, exercise or cultural classes, sports clubs etc)
Note: these and other activities can form part of your self-care practice – see my previous Leadership Toolbox article about self-care
Stress and the nervous system
“Stress” is a word that typically has very negative connotations in our current culture. While it’s true that too much stress over too long a period can be detrimental to our physical and mental health, we need to distinguish between “eustress” (positive stress) and “dis-stress” (acute or chronic depleting stress)
Eustress is a just fancy way of saying positive stress which has beneficial effects on us. Feeling nervous before a speech or presentation, getting butterflies in your stomach before you see someone you really like or feeling excited before you jump on a plane for a big adventure are all examples of eustress.
These feelings help us know that this situation is important to us, and helps us perform at our best. In fact, without this kind of stress in our lives, we probably wouldn’t ever achieve anything – something in us is wired to crave these feelings, which motivate us to stretch ourselves and try new things.
The opposite of “eustress” is “distress”, and it can be acute (short-term and intense) or chronic (long-term, from minimal to intense).
Acute stress is generally a single event that creates intense stress (think: loud noises, being in a car crash, preparing for an exam or job interview etc). It’s usually a short-term experience, although it can feel like it will go on forever whilst we’re in the midst of it.
We can help ourselves and those around us to manage and recover from acute stress by:
- removing the stressor (or getting away from it) or at least taking our minds off it for a while
- engaging in activities that soothe our nervous system by activating the parasympathetic nervous system
Chronic stress is the accumulation of lots of less-intense events which over time builds our stress to intense levels (think: bullying, abuse, constant changes in our environment, lack of sleep, poor nutrition). In chronic stress, each event on its own is relatively mild; it becomes an issue when events pile up so fast that we don’t have a chance to recover from them before the next one hits.
It can be more challenging to recover from chronic stress, due to its ongoing, cumulative nature. However, it is possible to do. Some ways that can help are:
- establishing or intensifying your self-care practice (see link above)
- talking to a therapist
- taking steps to change your environment to reduce and eliminate stressful events
Note: see the link above for more information about developing your self-care practice
How do you think about stress?
A great deal of how we experience the world comes from how we think about what we are experiencing.
Threats vs challenges
What do you think of when you hear the word “threat”? It probably conjures up a sense of fear, thoughts that some sort of harm might befall you or a loved one. It sounds dangerous.
Now think of the word “challenge”. You might feel nervous, but there’s also a sense of inspiration – we like to rise to a challenge. It gives us the idea of conquering and being victorious.
Which word is more likely to help you manage stress and take action?
…there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.Hamlet, Act II, Scene II